Men tend to be extremely visual when looking for people to fuck/date. When you're online, make sure to show a little skin in your pics. Going online to a site like BiggerCity or Bear411 helps you hone in on the people who looking for someone like you. Finding a guy who is not only gay but also looking for a big guy is often like looking for a piece of hay in a needle stack. The first piece of advice I have for you is to get online! Gay men are a very small population. Through a lot of trial, error and creepers I seem to have finally gotten a handle on things. It was really tough to figure out exactly what bait to put in my trap to lure in someone who wanted what I had to offer. I spent the first two years in colege completely dateless, aside from the random online match up. But, being on a college campus, without a car, I’m limited to my selection of eligible guys. Because of my weight I have a hard time find other guys who want to date me, let alone take me back to their dorm for some fun.
